A Lighthearted Journey to the Colorado River.
By Arlo Agogo
It’s Saturday morning, my official cheat day, when the diet gods look the other way and I can indulge in all the glorious calories I’ve been dodging all week.
Today, I decided to take my trusty dune buggy, Daisy, for a spin down to one of my favorite spots on the Colorado River.
Picture this: a sun-soaked morning, the wind whipping through my thinning hair, and the promise of a chile verde burrito waiting to make my taste buds sing.
This, my friends, is what the last quarter of life is all about—finding your room, your happy place, where it’s just you, a majestic river, a couple of lizards, and the echoes of centuries past.
I grabbed my gear—sunglasses, a beat-up cooler, and my favorite Beach Boys playlist—and headed south on Highway 95. First stop? The local carnicería, a Mexican supermarket where the air smells like spices and secrets.
I snagged a pound of chile verde, cooked to perfection by a local Mexican native with some sort of ancient Indian heritage woven into her culinary magic. This wasn’t just food; it was a cultural masterpiece, a burrito destined to be savored in the shadow of the Needle Mountains.
I also grabbed a quart of diet root beer (because I’m cheating, but I’m not that wild), some ice for my bucket, and off I went, Daisy’s engine humming like a contented bumblebee.
The drive to my spot is a 25-mile pilgrimage through the Arizona desert, a place where time feels like it’s taken a permanent siesta. After the cutoff to Lake Havasu, you hit a dirt road that snakes through the Needle Mountains—rugged, timeless, and just a little bit mystical.
The road twists and turns, kicking up dust that dances in the sunlight, until you reach this one overlook above the Colorado River. It’s not just a view; it’s a full-on experience. The river sparkles like it’s showing off, the mountains stand tall like they’ve seen it all, and the silence? It’s so deep you can hear your own heartbeat.
This, my fellow middle-aged and senior wanderers, is my room.
Now, let’s talk about that Beach Boys classic, In My Room. You know the one:
🎵“There’s a world where I can go and tell my secrets to, in my room, in my room…” 🎵
Those lyrics hit different when you’re in the last quarter of life. I’m 58, and I’ve come to terms with the fact that I can’t slalom waterski like I’m auditioning for a Baywatch reboot.
I’m not jumping off rooftops or chasing after every pretty smile that passes by. And you know what? That’s okay.
Life isn’t about chasing anymore; it’s about savoring.
It’s about finding that sacred space—your room—where you can just be. No expectations, no to-do lists, just you and your essence, maybe with a burrito in hand and a lizard eyeballing you from a nearby rock.
See, In My Room isn’t just about a physical space. It’s a state of mind, a little corner of your soul where you lock out the worries and fears.
For Brian Wilson and the Beach Boys, it was about dreaming, scheming, laughing at yesterday, and not being afraid when the world goes dark.
For me, it’s this spot by the Colorado River, where I park Daisy, unwrap my chile verde burrito, and let the world melt away. The river’s been flowing here for millennia, watched over by these same mountains.
There are petroglyphs etched into the rocks nearby—swirls and shapes that could’ve been carved by some ancient artist or a bored teenager in the ’70s.
Either way, they’re a reminder that this place has been someone’s room for centuries. Wagon trains, native tribes, desert dreamers—they’ve all sat here, felt the breeze, and found their own kind of peace. Now, let’s not get too serious—nobody’s dying, nobody’s crying.
This is cheat day, after all!
Picture me, a slightly paunchy guy in a faded Hawaiian shirt, sprawled in Daisy’s driver’s seat, burrito in one hand, diet root beer in the other, humming In My Room like I’m auditioning for a Beach Boys cover band.
The lizards are my only audience, and they’re unimpressed, scurrying off to do whatever lizards do on a Saturday morning. Maybe they’re chasing their own cheat-day snacks. The point is, I’m not out here trying to solve world hunger or climb Everest. I’m just here, and that’s enough.
This final quarter of life sneaks up on you, doesn’t it? One day you’re doing backflips off the dock, and the next, you’re creaking when you stand up and Googling “best knee brace for hiking.” But here’s the beauty of it: you don’t need to do backflips to find joy.
You just need a place—a room—where you can be your truest self.
For me, it’s this desert overlook, with Daisy’s engine cooling down and the river whispering stories of centuries past. I’m not out here brooding over what I can’t do anymore.
I’m celebrating what I can do: eat a burrito that’s practically a religious experience, sip a root beer that’s probably 90% sugar despite the “diet” label, and let the desert wrap me in its quiet embrace.
And let’s talk about that quiet for a second. It’s not just the absence of noise—it’s the absence of pressure. No emails to answer, no deadlines to meet, no one expecting me to be anything other than a guy enjoying his cheat day.
In my room, I’m not a businessman, a retiree, or a guy who’s maybe a little too attached to his dune buggy. The Colorado River doesn’t care about my 401(k) or whether I forgot to take out the trash.
I’m just me, and that’s plenty.
The Needle Mountains aren’t judging my life choices. And those lizards? They’re too busy sunbathing to give a hoot. So, to my fellow seniors and middle-aged dreamers, here’s my advice: find your room. It doesn’t have to be a literal place, though I highly recommend a spot with a view and a good burrito.
Maybe it’s a park bench, a cozy armchair, or even just a moment when you close your eyes and let the world fade away. It’s where you can laugh at yesterday, dream about tomorrow, and not be afraid of the dark.
It’s where you realize that the last quarter of life isn’t about what you’ve lost—it’s about what you’ve found. For me, it’s the joy of a cheat day, the hum of Daisy’s engine, and the timeless beauty of a river that’s seen it all.
As I sit here, munching on my burrito and watching a particularly bold lizard eyeball my root beer, I’m reminded of those In My Room lyrics:
🎵“Now it’s dark and I’m alone, but I won’t be afraid.” 🎵
I’m not afraid—not of getting older, not of slowing down, not of being just a regular guy in a dune buggy.
This is my room, my slice of eternity, where the Colorado River flows, the Needle Mountains stand guard, and the lizards keep their secrets.
Here’s to finding your room, wherever it may be, and making every cheat day a masterpiece.
Groove is in the Heart - Arlo


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